Selecting a perfume that works for you is like choosing a lover it's all about chemistry. One woman's perfect scent can be another's nausea-inducing air freshener. Coco Chanel once said one should use perfume wherever one wants to be kissed. It's poetry, but it's even better marketing. Who among us doesn't want to be kissed all over the place? I think perfume should be like an affair you alone (and maybe a couple of your close friends) should know it's there